Women Answer Questions Men Are Too Afraid To Ask

"What happens in the girls bathroom?"
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  1. erin bruneau

    erin bruneau4 orë më parë

    I only picked this video because Lindsay and jazzmine where on the cover

  2. Sebastian1010

    Sebastian101011 orë më parë

    9:23 no. Just no. Communication? Ever heard of a woman? No

  3. Sebastian1010

    Sebastian101011 orë më parë

    I hated that pink lady. I felt like all she was doing was constructing men to do stuff. Like stfu

  4. Sebastian1010

    Sebastian101011 orë më parë

    When women asked questions about guys: guys answered them politely When men asked questions about women: women get mad and insult men in every way

  5. aristar84

    aristar8418 orë më parë

    "What the worst part about dating guys?" - Joyce laid it down and her initial three responses, I was like SAME!

  6. NinjaSpan

    NinjaSpan20 orë më parë

    I WeaR MaKEup FOr MysELF

  7. NinjaSpan

    NinjaSpan20 orë më parë

    Nobody: Absolutely no one: PC women: "I WeaR MaKEup FOr MysELF"

  8. What Not To Do At a Stoplight

    What Not To Do At a Stoplight20 orë më parë

    “If things end badly what they could do to retaliate.” Guys definitely have to worry about that so much more it’s incredible

  9. eva martini

    eva martini2 ditë më parë

    Man confuse being friendly and showing love to their male friends as being gay,,,sometimes and that just gives me headaches

  10. Laura C

    Laura C2 ditë më parë

    Joyce went IN on the worst parts of dating men lmao i fkn love it

  11. Hunter Dore

    Hunter Dore2 ditë më parë

    I haven't asked these questions because I don't want to offend women or I didn't know it existed or it just doesn't come out of my mind

  12. Himawati Cahyu Lestari

    Himawati Cahyu Lestari2 ditë më parë

    "the emotional weight of men, and manhood, and masculinity is complex." omg i couldnt agree more!!!

  13. Eleven Twelve

    Eleven Twelve3 ditë më parë

    yeah not fine in an reality

  14. Ms. Medusa

    Ms. Medusa3 ditë më parë

    Joyce is such a beauty to listen to and an absolute stunner. She would look amazing with a dark glossy lip and a finger wave

  15. David Santos

    David Santos3 ditë më parë

    For a second imagine it was men instead of women speaking. Imagine the comment section. #doublestandards

  16. Shelby Fischer

    Shelby Fischer3 ditë më parë


  17. The Random

    The Random3 ditë më parë

    Anyone here got questions for men? If so ask here!😄

  18. Rayelle J

    Rayelle J4 ditë më parë

    I officially appreciate being 5'10 and medium/lg bone size. I dont feel afraid when I'm near guys. I just lift up my shoulders/correct posture, naturally, and get ready to punch someone in the face vs running away and feeling helpless.

  19. kbrigsby61

    kbrigsby614 ditë më parë

    Uhhh... I'm 57 & I've NEVER been 'afraid' to ask ANY question -- of a female. Slightly-hesitant, yes, but ONLY becawz..., women play tht fukkd-up GAME of: "welll... YOU asked me the wrong question, so now..., YOU ain't gettin' NO pu$$y." (See how CHILIDISH & manipulative they are???). Also, MEN..., do NOT, NOT, NOT 'needany kind 'emotional-intelligence'!! Wht-da-Fuque kinda shite izzat, any-ways...?? Ohhhh, tht's sum-thing u emotionaly-crippled (& ridiculous-behaving) 'Entitled-VagiBagz' use to fukk-up a man's world, &/or, life!! Fokkk!K!!

  20. Bluegoka

    Bluegoka4 ditë më parë

    Men don’t say “social constructs”

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    Olipa Katongo Kunda4 ditë më parë

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  22. Destiny Kidder-Buell

    Destiny Kidder-Buell4 ditë më parë

    Joyce was spitting the real tea!

  23. Omoye Uduehi

    Omoye Uduehi4 ditë më parë

    Damn sis! What is that orange highlighter? I want to know.

  24. Ice King

    Ice King4 ditë më parë

    For the “what’s the worst part about dating guys” question. Joyce literally said it ALL👏🏿👏🏿like exactly what I would’ve said !!!!

  25. pmp

    pmp4 ditë më parë


  26. llgla

    llgla4 ditë më parë

    And stop asking why we bring our purses to the bathroom. We have reasons. **nod**

  27. Kvng Austin

    Kvng Austin5 ditë më parë

    Nobody asked for this to be a thing. Nobody.

  28. mandypdx

    mandypdx5 ditë më parë

    Nope... my ex was into guys too. I can’t fulfill that need :(

  29. TrulyYourGamer

    TrulyYourGamer5 ditë më parë

    I wonder, how do they know what men will ask if men never ask these questions, I would understand if there was a man who told them these questions, but I have a feeling they were made up and will even probably demonize men, even if none of these questions have been asked.

  30. Niiiota

    Niiiota5 ditë më parë

    Everything Joyce said about the worst part of dating men is on point!

  31. 10SkYaboku02

    10SkYaboku025 ditë më parë

    we had some valid points and some points that were just so out of order

  32. Anonymous Me

    Anonymous Me6 ditë më parë

    I love Joyce's commentary

  33. Isabella Sampson

    Isabella Sampson6 ditë më parë

    the self love in this video is amazing.

  34. Karusha Pather

    Karusha Pather6 ditë më parë

    " my friend's hot " - Joyce 😂🤣 I love her! We all need a friend like Joyce

  35. Hez_am_i

    Hez_am_i6 ditë më parë

    Sometimes it's because u can't get out of your clothes on your own to pee, so ur friend needs to help u

  36. Lovelybones

    Lovelybones6 ditë më parë

    For me the bathroom thing came from wayyyyy back in elementary/primary school, it was "can you make sure the door will not open? , can you garde the door?" basically x'), the bathroom was not inside the building but simply in some corner of the playground so we become quickly paranoiac that someone will burst open the door or the lock will broke or something very embarrassing like that. And little by little it became and habit and voila !

  37. Uni Panda

    Uni Panda6 ditë më parë

    Lol this was the day of best friends switch styles 😂 part of the reason I clicked 🙃

  38. Lilly H

    Lilly H6 ditë më parë

    Ok- but like- I'm a girl and I've never even understood why other girls go to the bathroom together.. maybe it's just because I don't really like to gossip or really talk at all.. but none of my friends have understood the "girls go to the bathroom together" concept either soo...

  39. Kyla Stewart

    Kyla Stewart4 ditë më parë

    Lilly H Well in public places it’s more safe to go somewhere in a group setting. I think if you’re on like a friend outing or like a double date it’s a way to kinda take a breath with your friend. Idk if this makes sense but this is how I think about it

  40. Toni Monet

    Toni Monet6 ditë më parë

    Guys don't talk in the bathroom because their wangs are out.

  41. 2019 chillflix

    2019 chillflix6 ditë më parë

    we need a batter dating app with better filters. similar as shopping on amazon !! . filters to search for - habits-lifestyle-ect. sexual fetishies ect ect.... There would be no limbo you'd know what habits desires the person wants. the search would match each other. also apps should be made minor proof.allow new members produce offical ID to get a joining code- maybe a- once off payment fee. the filters may take an hour to fill out ! but when the memebr clicks enter ! they get the best match !! and then take it from there !! just swipping through pics and reading a small bios is not enough. it's all time wasting really.

  42. Coriander McGreevy

    Coriander McGreevy6 ditë më parë

    Joyce’s hair looks so good short!!

  43. Olivia Nicoloff

    Olivia Nicoloff6 ditë më parë

    ok joyce is everything as always

  44. noneyabusiness

    noneyabusiness6 ditë më parë

    Joyce real live running this video I love her so ducking much like uhhhhh😍🙋🏿‍♀️🙋🏿‍♀️💅🏾💅🏾

  45. jg cool

    jg cool6 ditë më parë

    lindsay's wow is my mood 24/7 lol

  46. Olivia

    Olivia6 ditë më parë

    Men should have to answer questions from women now!

  47. Emily Denny

    Emily Denny6 ditë më parë

    As an asexual woman I'm learning so much in the first 2.5 minutes

  48. Rita Hueston

    Rita Hueston2 ditë më parë

    Big mood

  49. Ells Bells

    Ells Bells3 ditë më parë

    Emily Denny Lol, okay😂

  50. M. Cobb

    M. Cobb7 ditë më parë

    6:28 me too girl. 😂 and I'm also a Libra so relatable.

  51. Kate Massey

    Kate Massey7 ditë më parë

    No period questions...hmm

  52. J Hopeless

    J Hopeless7 ditë më parë

    Just saying hasn't BuzzFeed released about 5 videos with the exact same questions

  53. Elise Courtney

    Elise Courtney7 ditë më parë

    idk bout u but you saying they date one girl and it ruins there life, insecurity about the way they look....hm? iv never heard that one before oh atleast not for men LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

  54. Blind.

    Blind.6 ditë më parë

    Elise Courtney tf?

  55. Jana Welch

    Jana Welch7 ditë më parë

    jaz and lindsay weren’t paired together? what is this madness??

  56. BelowAverage -

    BelowAverage -7 ditë më parë

    I'm a guy and I kind of don't understand their problems with guys bc everyone has insecurities, dependency is based on how a person was raised(not gender), and how Michelle said they have to figure out if we're basically a player or a nice guy, but I think more woman are "swiping" than men. However I do agree on how we have low emotional intelligence bc I honestly don't know how girls feel a lot of the time but I feel like that's bc they show more emotion than men and men don't experience as many emotions and emotional changes as they do bc I think men are the more chill type of gender(not to be sexist). I've never really been taught to show emotion so I keep it inside and deal with it. That's bc I was raised that way and started doing that a long time ago and can't get out of that way. I also feel a little surprised to hear how we have "mommy issues" and I feel that's more of who the mom is and her personality. I also don't really know what to say about the "hero complex" is a bad thing, or do am I just confused on what that is. Idek what I'm doing anymore 😂Feel free to respond and explain to me these things that I don't understand bc I'd like to understand them. One more thing, sorry this is long😂. Why do woman hate when men say "you look pretty without make up"? Bc I would be happy with someone complementing me like that if I was a girl. One issue though, when one girl says something about our confident issues and another girl says how make up gives her confidence, why are guys called gay bc some where makeup and are still straight? Why can't we do the same thing as girls and not have it be normal? But I honestly think that's a way deeper issue than this video so let's just move on ig😂

  57. We Fe

    We Fe7 ditë më parë

    Great video

  58. Kyla Coates

    Kyla Coates7 ditë më parë

    whose here before 1 million 🙃💕‼️

  59. Jordan Bailey

    Jordan Bailey7 ditë më parë

    Joyce going in on what’s wrong with me was everything

  60. Joshika Wale

    Joshika Wale7 ditë më parë

    Jaz same I am a Libra too... But I get impressed and then I aak the person out... Lol

  61. Joshika Wale

    Joshika Wale7 ditë më parë

    When Joyce starts talking about men and dating them Oh my god 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  62. Abby Bee

    Abby Bee7 ditë më parë

    What scares me is when like fifties guys come near you, im very paranoid of people in public XD Because you never know if theyre like a pedo, or a criminal

  63. steve cwell

    steve cwell7 ditë më parë

    Future Cat Ladies of the world Unite!

  64. Imperial Grind

    Imperial Grind7 ditë më parë

    how did EJ Johnson get to be on the panel?