Selena Gomez - Lose You To Love Me (Alternative Video)

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You promised the world and I fell for it
I put you first and you adored it
You set fires to my forest
And you let it burn
Sang off key in my chorus
Cause it wasn’t yours
I saw the signs and I ignored it
Rose colored glasses all distorted
You set fire to my purpose
And I let it burn
You got off on the hurtin’
When it wasn’t yours
We’d always go into it blindly
I needed to lose you to find me
This dancing was killing me softly
I needed to hate you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
I gave my all and they all know it
You tore me down and now it’s showing
In two months you replaced us
Like it was easy
Made me think I deserved it
In the thick of healing
We’d always go into it blindly
I needed to lose you to find me
This dancing was killing me softly
I needed to hate you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
You promised the world and I fell for it
I put you first and you adored it
You set fires to my forest
And you let it burn
Sang off key in my chorus-
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to hate you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
And now the chapter is closed and done
And now it’s goodbye
It’s goodbye for us
Music video by Selena Gomez performing Lose You To Love Me (Alternative Video). © 2019 Interscope Records


  1. نارنج نارنج

    نارنج نارنج10 orë më parë

    It hurts .

  2. Syamsya Adindara

    Syamsya Adindara12 orë më parë

    Selena Gomez💪💪💪💪💪💪

  3. Jacob Traconiz

    Jacob Traconiz14 orë më parë

    Aside as it is I’m back at this video because the one that loved me promised everything as did I but I had to push her back and give her back to the one that she was supposed to be with simply because there is no honor in anyone taking someone else’s treasure🥺 I just love a real man but know that A man doesn’t have love The real love would’ve taken what wasn’t his Or is never in was not supposed to be his

  4. Daniel Raymond

    Daniel Raymond15 orë më parë

    . Hi, I'm Daniel. It would be awesome if I can get the Grit Freedom Chair before the end of the year. Their are some pretty cool ideas that I would like to do with that chair! Work on my skills until I get better with the chair. Can you please share my post. Thank you again!

  5. now united

    now united16 orë më parë

    How can say what i want yo say man she’s an angel

  6. Jeremy Ledbetter

    Jeremy Ledbetter18 orë më parë

    You have to let go of everything you think you know to find yourself You fall downward to go up...


    FAIQA HASYIMAH18 orë më parë

    I mean, we all can definitely tell how broken & hurtful she has been throughout the relationship. & how could someone possibly has a heart to actually did this to someone as pure as Selly? 😭💔 my heart aches just by looking at those meaningful lyrics ✊😔

  8. Lauren :

    Lauren :19 orë më parë

    reminds me of my toxic ex

  9. Mila Lemos

    Mila Lemos20 orë më parë

    Completamente maravilhosa!!! ❤️

  10. Anoniemer 812

    Anoniemer 81221 orë më parë

    Heartbroke 💔

  11. Nathalie Romero

    Nathalie Romero21 orë më parë

    I love it🤯🤯🤯

  12. Tommy Lee

    Tommy Lee22 orë më parë

    How can you just let such a pretty and great woman go ? I will never understand something like that ! He didn't know what treasure he had there! What a great woman !

  13. DJordydj

    DJordydj22 orë më parë

    Nice but, why would they record her playing the high notes (at the very begining) if the song remains exactly the same with low piano notes????

  14. Lina Viveros

    Lina Viveros22 orë më parë

    Piel de gallina🤯🤯❤❤

  15. prince vishu

    prince vishuDitë më parë

    Love you babe miss you

  16. MuzXIT Tv

    MuzXIT TvDitë më parë

    Become a part of our music channel.

  17. Kayla Nguyen

    Kayla NguyenDitë më parë

    can someone explain to me why her songs are so off tune and her singing lacks emphasis? The song is way over produced and should take a minimalistic approach if she wanted that emphasis. A lazy attempt to get fans money.

  18. Caroline Rocha

    Caroline RochaDitë më parë

    Meu que MÚSICAAAAAA É ESSSA 🤩💖💖💖💖💖💖😍😍😍

  19. KMがちゃ

    KMがちゃDitë më parë

    I find this Ironic because your friend gave you her kidney and then you started drinking again which pretty much wasted HER kidney. she lost you because you did that to her, then when someone does that to you you act like you never did anyone like that. This is just my opinion and I know I might be called mean to say that because your going through a “hard time” but I’m just speaking the truth

  20. Boli Boli

    Boli BoliDitë më parë

    Work it Selena!

  21. Charbel-Joey Kattoura

    Charbel-Joey KattouraDitë më parë

    survived on my purpose and i let it burn and i let it off in the hurden when it w

  22. Antonio Valerio

    Antonio ValerioDitë më parë

    To justin?

  23. Tamsyn Pogue

    Tamsyn PogueDitë më parë

    Love the vulnerability shown in these videos! Way to get my waterworks going, Selena

  24. László Balog

    László BalogDitë më parë

    it looks like he's not playing the piano, otherwise I really like it. :)

  25. Oli W

    Oli WDitë më parë

    Selena: plays piano with long nails Pianists: scream in pain


    KEMBAR KEMBARDitë më parë


  27. Nuri Douzan

    Nuri DouzanDitë më parë

    With out losing him, the song it will not be beautifully done and emotionally and powerful, bless her she is young and fantastic singer, I ' Always love her and love her music.

  28. Angela Hala

    Angela HalaDitë më parë

    Wow this breaks my heart 💔

  29. subscribzzz biaatchzz

    subscribzzz biaatchzzDitë më parë

    Thank you for this gift selena 😭

  30. Jordana Schwartz

    Jordana SchwartzDitë më parë

    This song speaks to me in so many ways. After 15 years together my husband left me, just said he wasn't interested staying married to me. I saw the signs but wanted to believe I was wrong. I'm still healing, he hurt me so much, broke my spirit, and left me hating life. We have a son together, and he is my whole world, but sharing him is killing me so much. He was abusive to me, and I let him afraid to be alone. Be brave Selena, there is a perfect man out there for you that will treat you like a queen.

  31. Godson81

    Godson81Ditë më parë

    I’m so sorry he hurt you babe. You deserve much better. I honestly thought you were going to be together forever, I think his new marriage is a mistake, but you keep shining hunni, we all love 💖 you Selina, you will find true love again when the time is right. We are all rooting for you babe. I’m not a fan of his at all, never have been, I’m really not a fan of any human being, I just love some of your songs, and you are a human being like everybody else. I’ll keep you in my prayers sweets, your an amazing woman. I just wish we could meet, cause ide be the best friend to you expecting nothing in return. Love 💕 you hunni, stace Melbourne 🇦🇺 Australia. 😘💕🙏

  32. Riya Mehta

    Riya MehtaDitë më parë

    Of course I can say that Selena is the only stars which has onlythe few haters🙂🙂🙂 Love u Selena💛❤️

  33. Y.C Music Life

    Y.C Music LifeDitë më parë 🎶❤🎶❤🎶

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    Doraemon NinnoDitë më parë


  37. Sarah Al-chatta

    Sarah Al-chattaDitë më parë

    She’s so strong and beautiful not just outside but her inside is so beautiful she glows


    JEN JIROODitë më parë

    I love this song ❤❤

  39. Holly Sundstrom Perez

    Holly Sundstrom PerezDitë më parë

    Seems like the Music industry refuses to accept the Disney starter found musical genius that goes off to do adult commentary music and the news often goes after them for becoming independent adults is that not what growing up is all about

  40. Holly Sundstrom Perez

    Holly Sundstrom PerezDitë më parë

    This is one of my favorite songs and she sings about the California fires News ignored and our government

  41. SqueeZ ́s WAY

    SqueeZ ́s WAYDitë më parë

    i´m a grown man but this shit hurt me...

  42. Mary Bermudez

    Mary BermudezDitë më parë

    Diva hermosa


    DYAA DAIIOUIDitë më parë

    I love you ❤️

  44. Willa Rose

    Willa RoseDitë më parë

    Honestly I’m glad Justin married hailey he doesn’t deserve someone as great as Selena

  45. Gregory Negrete

    Gregory NegreteDitë më parë

    I was sad when that happened to me

  46. Gregory Negrete

    Gregory NegreteDitë më parë

    I'm going to cry

  47. Sabreen Sheera

    Sabreen Sheera2 ditë më parë

    It’s been years since her and Justin broke up. And she is still making songs about the breakup. That means Justin must have have broke her so bad. And that fact that now he is married means that he got over it quickly but she didn’t. But you go girl! You are so far in your career without him!

  48. Drum Raisin

    Drum Raisin2 ditë më parë

    Check out my drum remix of Lose You To Love Me😀

  49. Mia Santana

    Mia Santana2 ditë më parë

    I'll need you to be fames.

  50. Curu Lu’Curlu

    Curu Lu’Curlu2 ditë më parë


  51. joseosmar Gocks

    joseosmar Gocks2 ditë më parë

    Katy Perry ❤️🤩😘

  52. gully boy

    gully boy2 ditë më parë

    I've come here from *milstone*song alternative song

  53. leo200 1

    leo200 12 ditë më parë

    damn shes beautiful ! get yourself a man who deserves you !

  54. Cami-Pao Blacuck Ontiveros

    Cami-Pao Blacuck Ontiveros2 ditë më parë

    Me encanta, muestra sentimientos profundos que aveces muchos escondemos. A pesar de que no sepa inglés y pongo subtítulos para saber la letra, entiendo de que está canción es hermosa...

  55. mona masry

    mona masry2 ditë më parë

    Sounds like a relationship with a NARCISSIST.

  56. Radhika Pandey

    Radhika Pandey2 ditë më parë

    Those dislikes are from people who were too busy staring at her gorgeous face...

  57. No Name

    No Name2 ditë më parë

    Bayıldım. Harika.

  58. Miss Morena Lorena

    Miss Morena Lorena2 ditë më parë

    I love you Selena!

  59. LunarNocturnal

    LunarNocturnal2 ditë më parë

    be strong girl you're precious never waste your tears or sadness anymore

  60. Nathalie C

    Nathalie C2 ditë më parë

    She knew he was going to marry Hailey. She wrote "perfect" about Hailey